If you put your hand into a fire and then complain that it burns, the solution is easy. It is not to ask someone else to put out the fire. This is called having an external locus of control.
The solution is to take your hand out of the flame. This I called having an internal locus of control.
You have a choice about the things you want for yourself in nearly all aspects of life. Therefore, don’t put yourself or remain in situations that are making you unhappy and then complain.
If you don’t like the rules of another person’s will, don’t stay.
If you don’t have the right job, home, partner or friends then change them.
The person who has an external locus of control lives with unsatisfactory things and just complains about them.
The person with the internal locus of control changes their position to get happy.
Which one are you?
Something worth thinking about.
Enjoy!
Scott
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